Homestay Guidelines and Etiquette for students

Communication with your host is the key to a successful and positive homestay experience.

Day to day life

You should share your daily schedule and plans with your host. Let them know what your class, study or work hours are.

Let your host know if you plan to go out after class or will come straight home. If your plans change and you will be out later than expected, you should call or message your host and let them know.

Let your host know in advance if you will not be home for dinner.

 

Interacting with your host

Make sure to say “Hello” to you host when you arrive home, and to let them know before you go out. It is respectful to let your host know when you are coming or going from the home.

You should try to spend time in shared spaces around the house, such as the kitchen/dining or lounge room and interact with family members. You can’t practise your English if you stay in your room alone too much.

However, if you need to study or just want some downtime to yourself that is ok. Be honest with your host and let them know how you feel.

Don’t be afraid to ask your host to explain something again if you do not understand something. Your host will understand that you are still learning and need some help.

 

Manners

Say “please” when asking for something, or accepting something. E.g. “Could you please help me with something?” or “Yes, please”.

Say “Thank you” when someone does something helpful for you or provides you with something.

Making eye contact when speak to people is a sign of respect. It shows people you are listening when you speak to them.

Asking people how their day was can be a polite way to start a conversation.

Offensive language, such as swearing or using derogatory terms is unacceptable. You should not use inappropriate comments about a person’s gender, race or religion.

Asking too many personal questions, or making comments about people’s appearances can be considered rude.

Do not enter another person’s bedroom without permission. Do not touch or use another person’s belonging without permission.

 

General house rules

Every homestay family have their own house rules. Your host family will explain their rules to you when you arrive.

If you do not understand any of the rules please speak to your host or contact SAS or your caregiver.

 

Below are some general house rules:

– Good manners are expected. Always treat your host family the way you would like to be treated.

– Do not spend too long in the shower, and always clean up after yourself.

– Provide your host with your mobile phone number so that you can be contacted.

– Please inform your host if you are coming home late or do not require dinner that night.

– Ask your host for permission if you wish to bring a friend over.